The one thing that ignited anger in me as a twenty-something was being told, “everyone’s timeline is different.” Back then, I felt like I had to keep up with the world, with expectations, with milestones. (You can blame the internet, my millennial mindset, or the magazines I grew up with for that one.) At 28, life showed me how quickly everything can come crashing down when you live for others.And at the near end of 34, life reminded me again. Even when you think you have the